Are men such a no-feeling creatures??

It was just just now that me and mom casually talked about men and how ungrateful they can be..

• One of my not-so-close relative's husband just got married to another janda and now she's the first wife while that janda is the second.. Previously, the wife's got a pretty comfortable salary but sayang suami punya pasal.. she resigned since he forced her to.. But a year later, he also resigned and became a taxi-driver and guess what?? that's where he met the mak janda.. drove her here and there sampai la jadi bini dia.. Sheeshz...
• My cousin, poor her, she's only been married for 2years that time and her husband cheated on her like so obviously... she came to know abt it and confronted him. he said sorry and they forget about the episode.. but apparently, he didnt. coz he was so busy cheating on his wife again and again and again.. and his wife, my cousin, forgave him again and again and again.. but now.. they've separated. their married life lasted for exactly 4years only. Her husband left her with nothing.. nothing at all.. all the furniture he took them all back and sold to the karang-guni man... and that's like just few days to raya.. poor mak ndak have to go shopping for furniture.. sheeshz..
• My colleague, Micheal, told me( more like he boasted it) that he has got a mistress and that she has just bore him a child. Sheeshz.. and all this while the wife dunno abt it. Well, she did la.. but he told her that they've broken up long time ago and that they never keep in contact. but never did the wife realise that he actually got an apartment in sembawang for that woman already. so its like playing hide and seek..

Mon - comes to work
Tue - On MC ( boss tot he's on MC. wife tot he went to work. he went to Sembawang)
Wed - Half day ( wife tot he's working. he went to sembawang. Again.)
Thu - comes to work, go back at 3pm ( nt feelin well, took time off, went to sembawang)
Fri - Go see doctor ( wife tot he's workin. He went Sembawang.)
Sat/Sun - Go Sembawang. (wife thought he came to work Over Time)

• Another colleague of mine, Cik Johari. he told his wife that he's off to play badminton (carrying his badminton and in sports outfit) but in actual fact, he is in Batam. and he daringly told me that.. Batam sampai, Isteri tinggal.

And now i've received a call from my gf telling me how her 5 years of relationship ended just because her man said "we're not fated to be together" and that "times are different now, we have different views and paths of life to lead".."i dont have feelings for you anymore..".. "i wanted to focus on my career" and that was that..

Sheeshz.... what have become of people nowadays?? Are we not faithful to the one and only? does the phase "my one and only" still stands in this society?? till death do us part??

i cant imagine the pain these women endured. The pain inflicted by the one person whom they loved whole heartedly.. the one person whom they willingly sacrificed their everything. To these men, i would say, shame on you people, you guys bring nothing to mankind but destruction and sorrows.

Of course im not just talking about the men but the women as well.. Sheeshz.. and i dont even know where to start... i mean.. there's a malay saying.. "the tree wont sway if there's no wind"..

so go figure.. Sheeshz..